THE HITCH

I wanted so badly to watch the movie The Hitch a few months before but due to hectic skeds and a lot of down times in my life, I ended up not watching that in the movie house, I was damn feeling bad, everybody tells me it is such a feel good movie, and being the Will Smith fan that I am I vowed to atleast get a DVD of that and watch it at home, but the moment I was set to buy a copy, I get a not so clear copy or it's out of stock!

Darn! I almost watched it when my cousin Jay has it on his PS, but the battery went low, so I never did get to even finish it. Anyways, I was browsing Oprah's website when I get encountered again with Will and read his interview with Oprah and it was cool that he has this 3 date rule.
But of course he stresses that the rule is not a hundred percent.It is an acceptable principle and may work most of the time.

FIRST RULE: Illuminate the best parts of yourself....well, I agree with him , I guess we should never hide anything....or decieve to that effect. I guess we should illuminate the good sight that most people love about us, and it never hurts to be the plain you when you get a date. Essentially, communication is such a vital part during the first date, it is a make or break for the both of you as dates. You get that first impression thingy so, I guess, being the best that you can be, is such a great thing to atleast impart to the other person. talking is good, but will says, silence is not a bad thing, hear out the other person as well.

SECOND RULE: Exchanged couple with range...... I didnt really understood it, but what he meant was there is something that you want to present as an offer of who you are, and that there is something that is recieved back. well most often , when you present your date of who you really are, chances are they could also open up and present themselves, their real true self. It never hurts also to have him say of who you really are, that way, you know early on if you have that chemistry, you know what i mean????

THIRD RULE: Keeping it real....after a couple of first date, and second date and so on, and so forth,you of course dont just wanna waste time dating...sometimes you go together for a while yet you don't know where you really stand. By the third date, he says, it is of course natural yo show the habits, and quirks, not hiding whatevers..i mean not hiding the things you wish to keep until you're a couple so you will know if there is a chance of you really diving into a relationship.

I feel, for this movie, yeah I know that I haven't seen all of it, but I want to learn more of this, bout how men date, what they want, what they think and what they do just to pursue a girl.
Yeah I know, it is just a movie...but Will definitely made his point....

I just wanna know too if Iam ready for a date...and who knows.....

haha...
Nah, am not dating anyone right now.
Just thinking how is it like to be on a date again after all these months of being single and hurtin.....